My Pole And My Partner

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My Pole And My Partner

My boyfriend has gone away for the weekend and I’m left alone in the house… with my pole. I got really excited that I had some quality pole dancing time, but I still missed him quite a lot. I started thinking about all of the reasons why I love Pole Dancing and how good I always feel when I get to use the pole.

It suddenly dawned on me how many ways my pole is similar to my boyfriend…


  • I always look forward to seeing my pole.
  • Regardless of what room my pole is in, it is always much taller than me.
  • My pole makes me feel strong.
  • I’m always proud of my poling and telling everyone about it!
  • I’m pretty sure I’ve accidentally flashed my pole.
  • There are not enough pictures of me and my pole.
  • My pole is heavy… I can carry it though ๐Ÿ˜‰
  • I like to look after my pole and take care of it.
  • I’ve definitely hugged my pole with joy.
  • I’ve been known to accidentally kick my pole.
  • I will have my pole forever.
  • My pole will always support me.
  • I always learn new things with my pole.
  • My pole doesn’t care how I look.

And For The Differences…

My pole doesn’t steal my half of the bed ๐Ÿ™‚



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About Holly Munson

Holly started pole dancing after admiring the grace, skill and elegance of pole performances and immediately falling in love with the style. After half a decade of bruises, struggling and then the satisfaction of success, her own pole school Firefly Poles was born.ย The vision is to share that same passion with others.

Holly wished that there was more Pole Dancing help available when I was learning, so now she aims to provide that help through writing, blogging and teaching here on PoleFreaks.

Holly is also a Level 3 Personal Trainer and an ambassador for Dragonfly pole wear, and also writes regularly for the Dragonfly blog .

Recent Pole Competition Results:


  • Miss Pole Dance UK Semi-Pro Instructor: 1st Place


  • Pole2Pole Professional Cup Essex Heat: 2nd Place
  • Pole2Pole Professional Cup Final: 1st Place
  • Pole2Pole British Isles Pole Dance Champs: 1st Place


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One Comment to “My Pole And My Partner”

  1. lol, soooo true.

    I’ve another…… my pole hasn’t been up in 3 months and I miss it :p

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