About Che'mar Micou

Hello all!

My name is Che'mar and I'm an avid pole athlete and blogger and excited to share my pole journey with you! I've been poling for nearly a little over eight months now and can't believe I waited so long to get started! Initially I was drawn to pole dancing because I was captivated by the acrobatics of it all and the strength I assumed it took to complete some of those moves. After getting over the initial hurdle actually going to a pole dancing class) and not being weighed down by "I just can't do it! They're gonna laugh at me! I can't dance!" thoughts, I stuck with it. I'm the type of girl that really loves a challenge so being determined to master those tough moves and not be defeated by a pole kept me coming back to class. Also because pole dancing was much more fun then lifting weights, a whole lot sexier, more fun and challenging! My relationship with the pole started off as a love/hate romance but once I let go of my inhibitions the hate faded away and the love remained. Next thing I know I was buying my own pole and developing my own pole motto:

"If I can [insert life challenge] then I can work a pole!"

To all the ladies out there who want to try pole dancing but get hung up on the negative let me be the one to tell you: you can do it! I was and still am most days pretty tomboyish and at the start of my pole journey wasn't very graceful and was the opposite of everything I'd imagined for a pole dancer but overcame it all so I know you can do it to! Pole dancing is SO much fun! You'll build confidence, get in shape, feel sexy (that part is awesome!) and do so much more if you take the leap of faith, hang up the doubt and hit the pole!

With love,

Che'mar

Recent Articles

Discovering Your Inner Goddess

Discovering Your Inner Goddess
All women are beautiful, strong and fearless and I’m sure that all parties can agree that this is best displayed in pole dancing. At the same time though, as a fledgling poler myself I know the awkward feeling of uncertainty and nervousness when it comes time to hit the pole (especially is people are watching. Yikes!). In times of doubt and when the negative thoughts start rolling in, my inner...

 

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Published on: Jan 12 2014   By:    1 Comment

Of Lovers and Dancers: What Pole Dancing and Love Have in Common

Of Lovers and Dancers: What Pole Dancing and Love Have in Common
When you think of pole dancing, love probably isn’t one of the first things that pops into your mind; it sure wasn’t for me when I first started out. When I thought of love, I thought of a feeling of euphoria and having my heart and mind wrapped around the person (or thing) I had my sights on. When I thought of pole dancing I thought of strippers, super high heels and ladies shaking it [their bums]...

 

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Published on: Dec 11 2013   By:    1 Comment